Author Archives: sisterlybond

WONDERING WHY (when people see you) they are so eager to ask HOW, or WHAT HAPPENED? When they probably already know more than you, or have settled in with their own opinion/assumptions. What does one get out of trying to force someone else to say out loud an unforgettable tragedy? I guess, I could (toContinue reading “Really???”

Yesterday was hard. It was hard in advance, a week ago I was like “this is going to suck”, especially since this day has been devastating for the past two years. First, my kids father passes away, and as a mother, your children’s pain becomes your own (something out of my control) I can’t fixContinue reading “Choices”

A long time has passed me by.. Gray hair taking over my once youthful waves…the kind of time which forces a heart…to finally sit down and listen to the mind, or at least let it explain. Why it might not have ever worked…not like in our dreams…not like when the stars aligned…on surrender mode atContinue reading “For Poetry Lovers- Vybe & Write “In Another Time”.”

The best part of my designs is being able to stand by them for real “for real”. They are an extension of how I think, move & expect others to. This is how I feel when I meet or see someone else moving forward toward their dream no matter what life hits them with. IContinue reading “Respect Tha Hustle!”

I grew up with no in between. I was either extremely hyper, or I was extremely silent stuck in one of my imaginary worlds (daydreaming), full of vivid descriptions when I would then put on paper one of my stories. I would force my younger siblings & neighborhood friends to audition & learn my playwrightContinue reading “For Those Of Us Who’ve Been Called OR Labelled: Weird!”

Could you imagine if once a month men had to go through severe body ache, a shift of uncontrollable mood swings, and had to purchase masculine pads, hoping they hold well, and stick properly to their boxers. What would they expect from women? Will they expect us to be understanding of their emotions? Will theyContinue reading “Would Men Survive A Period?”

Some will definitely relate. I write Poetry, stories & design, of course, writing will always be my first passion, but designing also jump starts my creative soul, however, when I’m going through hard times, whether they are mentally, physically, or emotionally, I go through writers block & all of my creative genes lock down. WhenContinue reading “Creativity”

It has been a minute guys. When i finally felt like blogging, I physically couldn’t. I fell down a few steps and fractured my ankle, the same ankle I fractured some years ago, so you can imagine that at first I was mother fucking everything, wondering why me? I thought I needed, but I guessContinue reading “When the mind speaks without interruptions!”

So, I’m pass the emotional breakdowns, and slowly, but surely catching up on a month of no sleep. Soul searching, hoping creativity knocks on my door and takes over until life has put some time between my present thoughts, and whichever way I find a genuine intent to move on. I refuse to numb. IContinue reading “Silence”

Prayer has nothing to do with religion. Many have messaged me assuming I am a religious person, based on certain posts,and I respond by saying “I just love God with every fiber in my being”. I have a relationship with God that was born in the depths of my pain, when I surrendered in tears,Continue reading “The Power of Prayer”